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Maha Haq for VICE I Let My Partner Control My Vibrator During Dinner. Here’s How It Went.
I handed my partner the remote to Je Joue’s wearable vibrator during dinner, and let’s just say he knew exactly what to do with it.
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Do Those Viral ‘Honey Packs’ for Better Sex Actually Work? Here’s What Doctors Want You to Know.
The FDA found hidden Viagra and Cialis ingredients in some sexual enhancement honey packs, raising serious safety concerns.
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LUBELIFE is gearing up for National Sex Toy Day, because apparently that’s a thing.
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What to Do When Your Ex Reaches Back Out, According to a Relationship Expert
A therapist explains why exes come back, when reconnecting might be worth it, and how to finally move on if it isn’t.
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What Is the ‘November Theory’? The Dating Trend That Could Make or Break Your Relationship.
A matchmaker explains why November can push couples toward commitment or breakups as cuffing season and holiday pressures collide.
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Courtesy of LELO LELO’s Halloween Sale Has Sex Toys Up to 50% Off—Plus an Extra 10% Here
Luxury sex toys at less-than-luxury prices? LELO’s fall sale ends October 31, and there are some seriously good deals.
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What Women Really Want in a Man, According to a New Survey
A new survey suggests women are less interested in so-called alpha males and more attracted to supportive, emotionally available men.
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Scientists Studied Why People Have Sex When They Don’t Want To. Here’s What They Found.
A new study explores why people have sex out of obligation, finding links to relationship insecurity and fears of infidelity.
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Courtesy of Hello Nancy This Pumpkin-Shaped Vibrator Might Be Halloween’s Most Unhinged Treat
Meet Jack, a smiling little jack-o’-lantern that’s actually a clitoral suction toy. Trick or treat just got interesting.
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Why Breaking Up on Good Terms Can Be More Painful Than a Messy Split
When a relationship ends without drama, you can find yourself grieving both the person and the life you built together.
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What Really Happens When You Sleep With a Friend, According to Psychology
A yearlong study found that some friends became romantic partners, while others returned to friendship or stopped speaking entirely.
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Cheaters Have Found a New Way to Hide Their Affairs in Plain Sight, and It’s Pretty Clever
From fake contact names to secret phones, people have invented plenty of ways to conceal affairs. Now the note-taking app method is here.